Nurturing like a Grandma

Speaking of natural nurturers, this story makes such a great metaphor

for the very nature of the generous nurturing of relationships.


I received this posting from an old friend this morning and wanted
to share it with you.

 

Merry Christmas and Good Nurturing

Jim

 

 

Dear family and friends,   

Enjoy this Christmas story & BTW, it’s great Grandparent strategy… 

  

Merry Christmas 

  

 

A KRIS KRINGLE MOMENT...

 

 

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I remember my first Christmas adventure with Grandma. I was just a kid. I remember
tearing across town on my bike to visit her on the day my big sister dropped the bomb:

"There is no Santa Claus," she jeered.  "Even dummies know that!"

My Grandma was not the gushy kind, never had been.  I fled to her that day because
I knew she would be straight with me.  I knew Grandma always told the truth,
and I knew that the truth always went down a whole lot easier when swallowed with
one of her "world-famous" cinnamon buns. 
I knew they were world-famous, because Grandma said so.  It had to be true.

Grandma was home, and the buns were still warm.  Between bites, I told her everything. 
She was ready for me. "No Santa Claus?" she snorted...."Ridiculous!  Don't believe it. 
That rumour has been going around for years, and it makes me mad, plain mad!! 
Now, put on your coat, and let's go."

"Go? Go where, Grandma?" I asked.  I hadn't even finished my second world-famous
cinnamon bun.  "Where" turned out to be Kerby's General Store, the one store in town
that had a little bit of just about everything. As we walked through its doors,
Grandma handed me ten dollars. 

Now, that was a bundle in those days. "Take this money," she said, "and buy something for
someone who needs it.   I'll wait for you in the car."  Then she turned and walked out of Kerby's.

I was only eight years old.  I'd often gone shopping with my mother, but never had I shopped for
anything all by myself.  The store seemed big and crowded, full of people scrambling to
finish their Christmas shopping.

For a few moments I just stood there, confused, clutching that ten-dollar bill, wondering what
to buy, and who on earth to buy it for.

I thought of everybody I knew: my family, my friends, my neighbors, the kids at school,
and the people who went to my church.

I was just about thought out, when I suddenly thought of Bobby Decker. 
He was a kid with bad breath and messy hair, and he sat right behind me in Mrs. Pollock's
grade-two class. Bobby Decker didn't have a coat.  I knew that because he never went
out to recess during the winter.  His mother always wrote a note, telling the teacher that
he had a cough, but all we kids knew that Bobby Decker didn't have a cough;
he didn't have a good coat. I fingered the ten-dollar bill with growing excitement. 
I would buy Bobby Decker a coat!

 

I settled on a red corduroy one that had a hood to it.  It looked real warm,
and he would like that.
 

"Is this a Christmas present for someone?" the lady behind the counter asked kindly,
as I laid my ten dollars down. "Yes, ma'am," I replied shyly. "It's for Bobby."

The nice lady smiled at me, as I told her about how Bobby really needed a good
winter coat.  I didn't get any change, but she put the coat in a bag, smiled again,
and wished me a Merry Christmas.

That evening, Grandma helped me wrap the coat (a little tag fell out of the coat, and
Grandma tucked it in her Bible) in Christmas paper and ribbons and wrote,
"To Bobby, From Santa Claus" on it. Grandma said that Santa always insisted on secrecy. 
Then she drove me over to Bobby Decker's house, explaining as we went that I was now
and forever officially, one of Santa's helpers.

 

Grandma parked down the street from Bobby's house, and she and I crept noiselessly
and hid in the bushes by his front walk. Then Grandma gave me a nudge.

"All right, Santa Claus," she whispered, "get going."

I took a deep breath, dashed for his front door, threw the present down on his step,
pounded his door and flew back to the safety of the bushes and Grandma. 
Together we waited breathlessly in the darkness for the front door to open.  
Finally it did, and there stood Bobby.

Fifty years haven't dimmed the thrill of those moments spent shivering, beside my
Grandma, in Bobby Decker's bushes.  That night, I realized that those awful rumours
about Santa Claus were just what Grandma said they were -- ridiculous. 
Santa was alive and well and we were on his team.

I still have the Bible, with the coat tag tucked inside: it reads "$19.95."

May you always have LOVE to share,

HEALTH to spare and FRIENDS that care...

And may you always believe in the magic of Santa Claus!

 

 

 

Jim  Cecil

Jim Cecil

Jim Cecil is Chairman and Co-Founder of the Nurture Marketing. Jim spends his days writing, speaking and teaching executives the principles and methodologies of truly nurturing those they most wish to influence. For the past 22 years, he has presented the Nurture story to over 500 CEO groups with VISTAGE Worldwide.

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